I have always had rather a passionate love affair with food, It is, after all, vital for our very survival. For some, though it is just fuel in order to keep the body functioning properly, and not something they particularly think much about. They eat when they need to, and ensure that they consume the right balance of nutrients to keep them within a healthy weight range.
For me, though, food is so much more than that, it is an experience. I love to savour and enjoy; it is a pleasure to be shared with others, whether it be around a huge table, or sitting on a towel at the beach! Give me a buffet and I am in my element; Eying up the selection of foods laid out, enticing me with their irresistible looks, and inviting me to devour them.
Even more than this is my desire to attend a ‘Medieval Banquet.’ Get out of the way Henry, that ham is mine! Just the thought of the succulent meats, tender vegetables, and plump juicy fruits not to mention all of the other goodies that would be on offer, is enough to send me into frenzy!!

Food is also linked to events, dates or occasions. For me Bonfire Nights as a child were wrapping up warmly against the chilly November night, watching the fireworks, and then eating something warm and hearty, such as a stew and jacket potatoes with chunks of bread. Christmas dinners, of course, with the traditional roast turkey, stuffing, pigs in blankets, sprouts (the only time I eat them), roast potatoes, and all the other trimmings. Once that was eaten, it was either a brisk walk or a slump on the sofa for a nap!
One more food I have to give a mention to is bacon. Just the smell it cooking, can rouse the laziest teenager from their bed to breakfast in record time! For me, it is caravanning holidays with my family. We always had cooked breakfast when we were on holiday, and the ‘full English’ was the perfect start to set us up for the day.
But, my love of food has cost me dearly. Well, actually, truth be told, not my love of food, more so my greed with food. As I got older, and life became a little tougher, I sought out my loyal and faithful love. It was always there for me and made me feel better. It gave me comfort and, for a while, respite. Unfortunately, it also gave me Type 2 diabetes.
My over-indulgence was to blame, I did not heed the danger signs, the weight continued to pile on and I did nothing to counteract it. I used food too much for comfort, paying no heed to the negative effect it was having on me.
However, this is a positive post. I can still have a good relationship with food, but not so much of an obsessive one. I can still eat the foods I enjoy, just in smaller quantities and not as often! The best thing though is that food can still be a pleasurable experience to be shared with others, and as long as I rein in my urges to eat everything in sight, I might even get to that banquet!
Those people who I did not understand who ‘ate to live’ rather than my philosophy of ‘living to eat’ had got it mostly right. However, I do believe that there should be no shame in enjoying food; I can still feel the comfort and warmth that food gives me, but I can eat sensibly so that my body can feel the benefits of it too!
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I can relate to this post entirely. I love food too but the mention of childhood Bonfire nights really brought back memories. For me it was pie and peas and then parkin. I can remember my Mother steeping the peas. Then on the actual night the kitchen window was open and kids, and adults alike, queueing outside with their bowl and spoon and my Mother spooning in the peas. Magic moments
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Oh I love that image Steve, of you all waiting with your bowls for your mum to dish out the food. Magic moments indeed, and I am so glad to have brought them back to you 🙂
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You are my kin in this forum😊 I love food enough to have written a love poem to food. I comfort eat and had to learn to check myself. I totally relate with this. Positive post!
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I can well believe you have written a poem to food, I have done so myself! It is pretty tough trying to break up with the hold that food has over me but I am trying! 🙂
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Keep holding strong :):)
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Everyone has a vice 🙂
I’ve begun to grow a bit sad as I age, not able to eat what my eyes can. Seems I have to spread it out over the day now, no room to eat an enormous dinner anymore. Peck peck here, peck peck there…no second bowl of soup for me. Just put it in the fridge for lunch another day. *sigh* I assume it’s age, as The Mister is the same way. Just as well, not like I need the calories!
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I wish my appetite was smaller than when I was younger, but it seems not to recognise that I don’t need so many calories! 😉
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Alas, we are both unlucky!
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Eat to live and living to eat is a powerful theme in weight loss. Luckily, bacon is good for low carbing, so bring it on! lol
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Ha Ha! Bring on the bacon indeed! 🙂
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In my family, food equated to love. It was expressed. “We don’t say I love you a lot in this family, we show our love by putting a roof over your head, clothes on your back, and food on your table.” We took the message to heart. All of my siblings are creative cooks, foodies, as it were, even the men. ❤️ I really need to do a post about this. Thanks for the inspiration, Judy.
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I agree that food is also about love. It is nurturing and taking care of someone. I know that my nan and mum for that matter, always hated it if anything was left on the plate! 🙂
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We have much in common here!
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Glad to hear it Greg. It is good to know that others know where I am coming from 🙂
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Most assuredly! 😉
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Great piece of writing, Judy. Your mention of Henry VIII and the banquets he held reminded me (for some reason) of the total darkness meal I once went to. I went with people from work and we were placed in a pitch dark room and then told to eat what was in front of us. It was a lot of fun and we had a great time (just like Henry would have done).
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Oh that does sound like fun Hugh. It must have been an odd experience though, as looking at food is part of the pleasure of it. 🙂
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Oh I agree, but it did teach me that food I thought I would not enjoy, I actually loved (like scotch eggs). It was really odd using a knife and fork and trying to eat what you could not see. I would highly recommend wearing a bib though. Lets just say I did get some rather odd looks on the way home with what I had spilt down the front of me.
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Ha Ha! I can immagine it, I am pretty unco-orinated at the best of times so would hopeless in the dark!
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I agree with you that food is memories and love, and because of that it can be easy to over do it. We’ve all been there. This is a wonderfully written post and testament to the ability to adapt and develop a new perspective! 🙂
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I love food too, Judy. Other than lima beans, I’ll eat just about anything. Love the flavors and combinations, ten-course meals or tapas with small samples of everything. My blessing and bane is that I never learned to cook. I can’t pull off a recipe worth…beans, and half the time don’t like what I make. In the long run, my lack of culinary talent has kept my portions down.
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All of my family are wonderful cooks, but I am pretty average. However, Mr Grump is a qualified chef and does all the cooking. Not a great combination, a chef that likes to feed, and a glutton that has no willpower!!! 🙂
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My husband is satisfied with whatever I dish up. We’re a sad case, Judy. 🙂
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Ha! Well either you are not as bad a cook as you think, or your husband is very devoted! 🙂
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Great post Judy!!! I love food too!!!!
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Thanks Ritu. We are definitely twin souls 🙂
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Clumsy, food loving hippie souls!
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Yes,not to mention Kentish girls (by adopting it as our home county)!
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Oh yes, that too!!!😊
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I love food too. I so understand you! Bacon…. ohhhh, to die for!!!
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Yummmmmm 🙂
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Yes!!! Yumm!!! Recently Rich and I were talking about a big brunch all the 4 of us! What do you think? Wouldn’t that be fun?
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It would be the greatest fun! 🙂
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Let’s keep it all in mind. Perhaps for next spring 🙂
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Yes I will definitely keep it in mind 😊
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Yeah 😄😄😄
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I totally envy those people who eat when they’re hungry and stop…how is that even possible? I eat because things taste good. No surprise that I need new clothes 🙂
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You and me both Aimer 😆
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Food isn’t only fuel in my life, but fun, friendship and … I forget. But like you I’d hate to lose that love of it. Controlling intake is crucial as we age and soz to hear you have type 2; the MIL has it and really isn’t coming to terms with it at all well. And yes to jackets; I think bonfire night was the first time I came to appreciate their glory.
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I agree Geoff, I also love fun, family. friendship and a bit of frlolicing! Food will just have to take more of a backseat in my life, instead of being such an influence! I hope your MIL manages to get a hold of her diabetes, it is quite a life changer, and hard to to cope with for some people.
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So many happy memories and wonderful events are accompanied by food that I reckon it can only be love of life that leads to love of food
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