In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “If You Leave.”
I was going to write a little update about my new job this week, but when I saw this prompt about leaving, I thought I would tie it in as it fits perfectly.
I am not a person who likes change very much. As you may have gathered, I am very routine oriented, set in my ways, and I suppose, a bit of an old stick-in-the-mud really. however I knew that i was going to have to bite the bullet and make a change in my life, or shut up moaning about it!
Without going into details, work at the hospital had changed since I had started there some five and a half years earlier. I used to love going in to work every morning and was always upbeat about it. A year later, I ,moved wards as part of some training I was doing and stayed there for the remainder of the time.
The camaraderie amongst the staff was what kept me there for so long; they are a wonderful team and coped with numerous changes without a lowering the quality of care they gave to the patients. Then slowly, but surely, and for various reasons. staff started leaving, and the dynamics were changing, as was the atmosphere. Morale was pretty low by the time the 20th person in a year had left, and I must admit, this was when I decided it was time to go.
Nothing stays the same of course, and sometimes change is for the better, but it did not make me feel better at all.When the job came up in the community, I decided to go for it. As you know, much to my surprise and delight, I got the job!
I then panicked for a bit as it meant change, and although I wanted it, I was worried about starting again. After all, I knew everyone at work, and they all knew me, Not only that but I was confident in my job and knew what was expected of me. In my new job, I would be learning a totally different way of using my skills with a whole new group of people who I didn’t know.
Well, I made the decision to take it. I knew that it was the right thing for me to do. I was not happy at the hospital anymore, and I would be a miserable influence on others which isn’t fair.So here i am, three weeks in and on a week off already! (I had already booked this week off for half term)!
I have been welcomed by the team who all seem to be very friendly. I have learned lots of new techniques, new ways of doing things, and have made friends with Mr SatNav who is going to be a constant companion to me due to my useless sense of direction!
It is going to take me a little while to get re-acquainted with full-time hours, but I know I can do it, (After working for 18 hours per day in a kebab shop 6 days a week in the past, I am sure I can hack a 37.5 hour week)!
My only regret is not saying goodbye properly to the staff at the hospital. I did not want a leaving do as it is not my thing really, and I ended up going very quickly in the end, once the paperwork was sorted this end, so there were some staff I hadn’t seen at all! Mind you, I am not good at goodbyes and bawled my head off on my last day at the hospital!
I know what you mean about leaving and leaving quickly without a big to-do. You did good.
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Yes, I wanted to quietly disappear! 🙂
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But still some happy memories to be kept forever☺
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Oh yes, without a doubt! 🙂
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I’m not good with change either 🙂 I’d much rather hide under a rock and wait for the world to change around me. I’m so glad you’re liking the new gig 🙂
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Yes, so far so good Aimer 🙂
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Goodbyes and change are hard for lots of us, Judy. You’ve been strong enough to do it though!
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I have a love/hate relationship with change depending on the seasons of my life. Happy that you’ve welcomed your new position. Sometimes change can go the other way.
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Yes, I was worried it would go the other way. I know it is only early days still, but I hope that it carries on as good as it has been! 🙂
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I’m sure you’ll find a new routine (even if it is more varied than before). I’m with you on the leaving dos. I think if one retires it’s slightly different, but if one moves to another job… Looking forward to hearing more about your new adventures
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I am sure there will be some adventures to share with you all. as we see a fair few characters! 🙂
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I’ve had a lot of jobs, but only one that I left without notice or fanfare. It was the right thing for me at the time. I did miss staff, but most of them left shortly after me anyway. I understand this one, Judy. ☺ Good luck with the new position. ☺☺
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Thanks Van, I think I have done the right thing! I hope that everything is ok with your husband Van 🙂
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Thanks. He has a few more tests, but cancer has been ruled out. We are beyond relieved !! ☺
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Thank God for that. I am also relieved for you 🙂
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❤️
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A great take on the prompt, Edwina. And for what it’s worth….even from here I can tell you needed this change…your blog voice is all wound up and full of new direction since the change!
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Thank you, that is really heartening to know, although I was totally unaware of it 🙂
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You can always nip over and say hello which is a good thing about not saying goodbye. I thought I was routine oriented until I married a Johnny Walker (due to the nature of his work though) it was initially difficult for me to re-orientate but I have been more blessed for it. I noticed that you are quite excited about your new place and it is a good thing 🙂
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I am so awful when it comes to saying good-bye. I mean I know most times it is just for a short time – but still Good-Bye it is not easy. Another wonderful blog.
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no, it is a big step sometimes. Glad you are enjoying my blog 🙂
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I prefer routine as well, but sometimes you just need a change. It sounds like you made the right decision. It always takes a little while to acclimate, but that’s okay. I have a feeling you’ll be great at your new position! 🙂
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Thanks for your confidence in me Tonya. I am hoping that I will soon be up and running 🙂
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😊🎉
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Hey, Judy, I understand that! Saying good bye is never easy! Talking about change: If there had not been the changes in your other job you would not have come to this one. Sometimes things need to change to make us move 🙂
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You are right Erika,. It was definitely time for me to go 🙂
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Oh I hear you… I’m not good with changes. Well, I got better. I started seeing it as a possibility to let something new in rather than losing something… but it’s not always easy…
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Yes, I think it is a case of changing the way you look at it. That is what I am trying to do 🙂
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I am so glad you opened your arms wide & embraced this opportunity for change! I am very much a person of routines, too, but I think we know when the time is right. Wishing you all the best in your new position!
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Thanks so much Karen. Yes the time is certainly right for me now 🙂
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Good for you for taking this leap!
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Thank you Jay, I am sure it is the right time for me now to change 🙂
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I think you made the right decision 🙂
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Thanks Joey. i think so too now 🙂
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I’m exactly the same as you, Judy. I don’t like change either but, when it does happen, it can sometimes propel us onto something far better. From what I read of your job change I look at it as a step up the ladder for you. Goodbyes are horrible and can be very sad. That’s why when I left my last job I did not have a leaving do. I’d been in the job for 23 years but I know I’d made the right decision to leave.
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I hope you run into your coworkers somewhere later, not into their cars!! and can say bye, without bawling. I totally sympathize, I cry like a baby!
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I will always be happy to see them and will try not to cry! 🙂
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