This last week has overall, been bittersweet for me. As you know, I have only been blogging since the middle of September, and there are many things I am still ignorant of. The prime reason for me actually doing this blog was a bit of an outlet for me really. I have a wicked sense of humour and love a good laugh, but I also seem to be always making a hash of things. I thought it would be fun to share some of my stories, in the hope that it would make someone else smile. That, in turn would give me pleasure, and everyone’s a winner!
I have been very lucky indeed since I have started my blog, that people have actually ‘got’ what I am about, which is mainly taking the mickey out of myself, my long-suffering family, and situations that I might find myself in. All of this was written with tongue firmly in cheek, (although of course, these events really did happen)! I have just described them from my viewpoint , which is to try to see the funny side of everything. I have never intended to offend anyone or be malicious in any way. (I deliberately steer clear of politics etc as I want a light-hearted blog, not a heated, raging debate)!
Anyway, a week a go today I wrote a post after going to my daughter’s school concert. I did my usual, in the fact that I wrote about the things that struck me as funny. I did finish the post by saying how much I enjoyed it, and how hard everyone had worked on it,
The very next day, I got a lot more traffic than normal, the day after , even more, and that particular post was getting the most hits. I thought that was a bit strange, but then I received an anonymous comment reprimanding me gently that the musicians had worked very hard. I replied that yes they did and I had acknowledged this. I was more concerned to think they had been at the SAME concert! How the hell did they know I had written that? I have tried to keep myself pretty anonymous, and have never named the town where I live or anything. It then dawned on me that my daughter had told them! She admitted this eventually as she thought it might get me some more traffic!
Too bloody right it did! The kids must have shown each other it, but were really upset about what I had written. I was mortified, and put an apology in the bottom of the article, but still I had another anonymous comment (well I don’t think Santa would have time to write to me just now) making me feel worse, so of course I removed the post completely.
I wanted to be inhibited in what I wrote, but I will certainly be a lot more careful in the future as I don’t want to (unintentionally) hurt anyone’s feelings, It is ironic that the most views I have ever had have been for the post that ended up being the least funny! I have a lot to learn!
I’m sorry you had a bad experience. I know, as do your long-term readers, that you did not mean any harm. I did not find anything offensive about the post in the least. There are plenty of movies that poke a bit of fun at the little ones’ school concerts. And you did say what a lot of work they had put into it. Plus anyone who’s been here before knows you spend the most time having a laugh at your own expense.
I guess it can be a bit tricky, what to post on our blogs, yes? My post that has been viewed by far the most has also caused me to lose a handful of followers. It stung for a while, so I know how you feel. Don’t let it get the best of you! 🙂
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Thanks for your support Karen. I know which post of yours you refer to, and I cannot believe that you lost followers over it. That post was so moving, heartfelt, and well-written, it is impossible to see how it could offend anyone. I will still make fun of everything on my blog (after all, that is what it’s about) but it did knock my confidence for a bit! 🙂
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It’s a terrible feeling to be misunderstood. You know in your heart that your post was not meant in a negative way, and you’ve done all you can to mend things. Try to let it go, and hopefully they will, too. 🙂
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Yes, now that I have written that post, that will be the end of it. I will not dwell on it any more. I was just so upset because it was children’s feelings that I had hurt.
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I completely understand. They’re probably not even thinking about it now. Hopefully, they’re focusing on festive activities for this time if year. Have a nice weekend! 🙂
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Thank you for your comment and support 🙂
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You’re very welcome! 🙂
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I think most people will understand you were just poking a bit of fun. School concerts can be a bit tiresome, but parents all go because we recognize the work that goes into them. Try to not let it get you down. And now that the cat’s out of the bag, at least you know it wasn’t too bad. Honestly, I’ve posted far worse things on my own blog. Sometimes things that could have maybe cost me my job (I’ve edited it a bit)
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Thanks Vanessa. I just worried about it so much as I would never want to make kids feel bad (anyone else is fair game)!! You are a far braver person than I!
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It IS tricky. But for what it’s worth, I thought the post was very funny, and related to it ENTIRELY! So there is a LOT you are doing right!
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Thanks so much Wendy for your support. I really appreciate it, AND I’m glas you liked the post!
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Ah yes, I have written posts and received some backlash when some people have taken my thoughts personally. It is something I am aware of when I write, but find myself censoring less and less as time goes by. I am sorry you felt you had to pull the post – your sense of humour shines through but there are people who will take offence at the slightest thing. Take heart….your regular readers LOVE your blog.
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Thanks so much Mary-Anne. I probably wouldn’t have worried over it so much if it hadn’t had been kids that I had upset. Still I have done what I can to try and sort it, and will now go back to taking the mickey out of the usual stuff! 🙂
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Hello, and thanks for stopping by. I am Judy, in my (very) early fifties and decided that life definitely gets more interesting as it goes on! I am a wife and a mum and have just finished University as a Registered Nurse, after having worked as an Associate Practitioner in the NHS. I am also a poet and the author of my debut book, 'Rhymes of the Times.' I love to laugh, and I love rhyming words too, so I joined the two together, and my book was born. I am currently working on another book in the series also. I am a prolific blogger and enjoy writing funny stories, anecdotes, and anything really that takes my fancy.
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